Family dynamics are so difficult sometime. Sounds like your granddaughter needs you, having a mother that is so difficult to get along with. I will pray for you and your family, Mamag15. We all need prayers. My own daughter hates me because she thought I encouraged her to marry her present husband. I live thousands of miles away and I only talk to her daughter occasionally because she has her own life, is married, goes to school and works. The only thing you can do is try to do your best. I'm working on great-grandchildren, 5 and counting. Life is never perfect but it beats the alternate choice.
I am so sorry I have not been on here in the last few days. I have been busy with school and fighting with my granddaughter's mother. Since my son died she has been raising her for the last 4 years. Now she is taking away all my rights to her. This is because I did not call her every other day or when she wanted me to. She is also mad because when my husband came home from the hospital, our oldest son, his wife, and two girls came down from Pa. to Va. where we live. I asked her if she wanted to bring the baby up while they were here and she said it was okay. But my son and his family had to leave the day she was coming up. so now she is mad because her plans for the day were ruined. I told her she could still bring Emma but got mad and that was that. Now she came up with the rule I had to call at least twice a week or lose all contact with her. Well I called a day late and being punished. so this has been my week. I hope you all faired better than I did. thank God made me feel better. I talked to my pastor and he told me to just let things cool down a bit. Please pray that this will get resolved as I do not want to lose my granddaughter. bad enough losing a son, and I cannot go through this with her.
I'm sorry for the loss of your son and sorry you are going through this. I will keep you and your situation in my prayers. Hugs.
mamag15
Mar 15, 2014
Thank you. I have been praying about this too. I just miss my Emma so much.
toadalove
May 1, 2014
Prayers are on there way!
denisemmmm
May 26, 2014
Mamag, I just must needs send you prayers and strength to endure this, I have been at the mercy of daughter-in=laws, as to my seeing my grandbabies, 8, in all. Then again my own sons are weak or manipulated. Thankfully my fella has 2 beautiful grans\daughters, that I am blessed to be a large part of...yet not getting to love, touch, hold or mine own.....really hurts deep. Deep prayers shall bring you and those grand's together again, I have very deep payers for you and all your needs, and wants, addressing this issue. YOU WILL BE REUNITED> DECLARTION UNTO GOD--So shall it be-
mamag15
May 26, 2014
Thank you Denise. My sister also has the same problem. I just hope these grandchildren realize that we love them and it is not our fault we cannot see them.